Ms Ashley Cooper, the study’s first author, said:
“For people anxious in their attachments, they have anxiety as to whether the person is going to be there for them and whether they are worthy of others. I was interested in how attachment security impacted partners’ experiences in their relationship on a daily basis. Some couples experience instability from one day to the next in their relationship, so we sought out to explore what could increase or decrease this volatility.”
The second problematic type is ‘attachment avoidance’.
This is someone who wants to avoid getting too attached to the other person. Around one in four people has an avoidance attachment style. High levels of attachment anxiety are linked to more ups and downs in the relationship, while avoidance is linked to low relationship satisfaction. The study of 157 couples — half of whom had been dating for two years or less — found that high attachment avoidance in one partner was linked to low relationship satisfaction for both.
Ms Cooper said:
“For the average person, stay attuned to what your partner is saying and avoid making assumptions that can escalate conflict.
Trusting in your partner and your relationship is important to daily interactions and stability for your relationship.”
The study was published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships (Cooper et al., 2017).
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